Belinda Tang I think everyone needs some stability. That’s why I recommend the baby steps. Jumping into the total unknown is just so scary.

You really have to follow your gut. That’s why I talk about the road trip. That one month on my harley taught me a ton about myself. I wish the trip never ended, yet I did it alone. My only regret was that loneliness. I wanted someone to share that journey with.

When I met my current GF in vietnam, that clicked and I knew where I had to move to. But if I hadn’t met her, I would have moved to either Ukraine or Mexico — both places where I had some friends already.

If your heart is telling you this is what you want, start easing into it.